Dear Paramveer,
Thank you for your support, I Uninstall the server tool and reprocess as typical installation which now called for a new Siteuser password and I gave a new password to enable the system point to the missing data base. To that end my missing data base is now seen.
For the upgrade I do not have a test server on the server but I shall look into that later
Thanks to you and also Nagaran for your support.
Thomas,
To answer your question I use 2008R2.
Thanks